Things that help me sleep

After grappling with insomnia for nearly two decades, I decided to really buckle up and get serious about improving my sleep. I did a lot of research and tried a ton of things, but the most important thing I found was to set clear and actionable goals with a clear gameplan.

While not every method proved effective, over the past year, I’ve managed to significantly improve my sleep quality. Here are the strategies that have been most beneficial for me:

  1. Maintain consistent sleep and wake times daily: This includes both weekdays and weekends. Training your body to recognize specific times for winding down and waking up is crucial. This may lead to some sleepless nights when you first start, since if you can’t sleep at night you still need to stick to your wakeup time and not sleep to compensate. But I promise you, adhering to a regular wake-up time pays off in the long run.
  2. Develop a consistent, screen-free bedtime routine: This advice is common but effective. My nightly routine includes washing dishes, personal hygiene, reading a book, and drinking valerian tea. Now, just thinking about these activities makes me feel sleepy.
  3. Engage in daily exercise, well before bedtime: It’s straightforward—if you’re inactive all day, you’ll likely feel restless at night.
  4. Opt for natural sleep aids sparingly: I used to rely on medications like Ambien and over-the-counter options like ZzzQuil. While they worked temporarily, they often reduced sleep quality, left me groggy in the morning, and led to dependency. I’ve found melatonin and magnesium to be helpful, but without implementing the above strategies, their effectiveness is limited.

I’ve learned that individual experiences vary, and it’s essential to discover what works best for you. For me, adhering to these four tips has been transformative. Of course, knowing what to do is the easy part; integrating these habits into your life is the real challenge. Best of luck, and may you sleep well!

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Exercise, reading, avoiding medication reliance, and practicing self-discipline… These might not be the most appealing solutions, but they are indeed effective!

Before bedtime, I practice meditation. The cognitive behaviors mentioned above have also improved my sleep quality. Additionally, listening to binaural beats, specifically delta frequencies from EquiSync, helps me fall asleep within 20 minutes. Grounding techniques, like walking barefoot outside or using a grounding pad during sleep, have been beneficial. I also take Magnesium before bed, specifically Zinc Magnesium from GNC, which includes small amounts of L-Theanine, L-Tyrosine, L-Tryptophan, GABA, and 1 mg of Melatonin—all natural sleep aids.

Clockwatcher, hi there. I read your post. and took notes. I am day 2ish of CPAP machine. I so need a routine. Clear and actionable goals. Regular bedtime hours. Bedtime/ wind-down routine. Washing dishes relaxes me. Reading is relaxing, too. My go to for relaxation. Maybe I will add valerian tea. I hope to add exercise too. I have a recumbent bike. I need to loose weight so. that’s a good start. :thinking:. one day at a time.

I use an old cellphone that I’ve downloaded a player app and a few MP3s of calming ambient music to. I got YouTube Premium for a month (no ads) and downloaded a few that I liked. I then used a free converter on my PC to turn them into MP3s. I place the phone under my pillow and it plays all night. I can hear it but my wife can’t. When I wake up in the middle of the night it helps keep me calm so I have a better chance of falling back to sleep.